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We are survivors and will continue to try and stop the innocents from suffering as we did.

  Important note: This page is originally constructed by Linda "Joanie" Jett. Though she has moved onward from our virtual realm, her spirit resides on these pages for the time to come. Although some link(s) are no longer active (being corrected as found), her references and sidebars have been kept in tact for this purpose. Permission(s) granted remain in tact, however, new permissions may be still in temporary flux. Please bear with us as we adjust and update the site. Thanks.

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This section is for ALL ABUSE VICTIMS!!!
There is an escape from abuse!! There is a way out from abusive situations. You do NOT have to stay because you have no where to go, no money, nothing to fall back on!!
THERE IS A WAY OUT!!!!
For more information please contact
Ed Isley
Victim Advocate
Office of The District Attorney
11th Judicial District
615 Macon, Rm. 103
Canon City, Colorado 81212
Phone: 719-275-0606
Ed has asked me to add his email address so that he can be reached 24 hours a day
Ed Isley -- autumn95@ris.net
(Joanie's Note: Ed is in his office Thursday and Fridays and has told me that he will help anyone get the information necessary to escape from the abusive situations they are in, not just in the State of Colorado, but Nationwide!!  If Ed is not in LEAVE A MESSAGE or ASK the person who answers the phone for HELP!!)

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Survivors of abuse (child abuse, sexual assault
and domestic violence) often feel a strong desire
to become involved in the fight against abuse
in some way. Unfortunately, many survivors feel too
worthless to believe that anything they could do to
contribute would help.

Nothing is further from the truth!

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful,
committed citizens can change the world;
indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."

-- Margaret Mead

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DADDY'S GIRL

Daddy and I have secrets, and I don't know why, and when I want to tell mommy, he say's I'll make her cry...........

I try to be real quiet, not even breathing like i'm there, but then I hear daddy, and I say a little prayer..............

I turn my face into my pillow not wanting to look at my dad, but I'm afraid if I don't, he'll get really mad.............

What he does hurts, and he hits me when I whimper and cry, I had to go to school yesterday with a broken nose, and black eye............

I always wonder about mommy, and why she never says a thing, except for when I'm bad, she yells and hits me until my ears ring................

I always clean my room, and even feed the dog, I take care of my little brothers, and talk alot to God.............

God never answers me, but I know he must be real, I ask him every night to help me, but pain is all I feel...........

I finally told mommy, and daddy beat me black and blue, I cried out for my mommy, but she was crying too.............

My little brother has a bruise on his cheek, but I didn't do it mommy, I swear, I see my daddy smack him again, and it knocks him out of his chair..............

While eating, my little sister made a mess, but she's not even one, my daddy hit her so hard, that her head fell back and swung............

My mommy told my gramma that daddy hits her and me, he did it for the first time when she was going to have me...........

I had a little brother who was older than me, but he's in heaven with God where I wish I could be...............

I always wish on stars, and search for a four leaf clover, I heard gramma say they are lucky, so maybe when I find one, all of this will be over..............

I got screamed at again, and slapped hard too, my mommy took the belt and hit me with the buckle and daddy's Navy shoe...........

I was taken to the doctor today, but they just put a cast on me, no one ever wonders why this has to be.............

Are all mommies and daddies like this I wonder, I think I'll ask my friend, but not until daddy's done, he put my clothes on top of the fridge.............

I know I shouldn't wish to go to heaven, my sister and brothers need me too much, as long as I'm here, I'm the only one daddy will touch............

Dear Lord, how could you send us here, don't you hear us cry? Here comes daddy down the hall, but God still hasn't told me why..................

Copyright Dr. Julie Soule' 1999 (used with permission)

Julie's previous site "Daddy's Girl" - http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Keep/9310/abuse1.html is no longer accessible, however, thanks to the web archives, you may read some of her inspirational work here
Hers is a story that hit our Joanie square in the eye, as it literally mimicked her own childhood


 
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We are wounded children still caring for the wee ones with a vengence,
still the tiny strong warriors with bleeding wounds within. Seeing
rainbows through our tears, and clinging to each other with our pain and
fears. Forming a family that was stolen from us, giving the gift of
childhood to those who will listen to us. So many abusers, God help us
all, the Goddess knows how hard we've had to fall. We pick each other
up, and dust each other off, we dry each others tears, and  and help
each other heal and recall. Tiny little angels, so sweet, one and all,
spirit gave us strength to be a voice to those who have none at all.
Still, we come forward from every walk of life, some of us are doctor's,
some of us are wives, some of us are abusers, some of us can't heal,
some of us are still so angry, that our abusers we wish to kill. Tiny
shattered warriors, that's us if you please, help us protect the others
from this terrible disease! The inner child is calling, crying out for a
prayer, will you be someone that hears that child and cares?

Copyright Dr. Julie Soule' 1999
(written from the heart after she saw this page)

I Survived Child AbuseChildren are Precious

The banners on this page are Copyright Dr. Julie Soule and used on this site with her full permission.
Please help pass the message and let's STOP CHILD ABUSE in ALL forms NOW!!!
PLEASE TAKE THE GRAPHIC OF YOUR CHOICE, AND LINK IT BACK TO OUR PAGE, on Julie's behalf, since her page is no longer active. Thank you for your help!


 
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Dear Mr. Jesus

Dear Mr. Jesus, I just had to write to you
Something really scared me, when I saw it on the news
A story 'bout a little girl beaten black and blue
Jesus, thought I'd take this right to you

Dear Mr. Jesus, I don't understand
Why they took her mom and dad away
I know that they don't mean to hit with wild and angry hands
Tell them just how big they are I pray

Please don't let them hurt your children
We need love and shelter from the storm
Please don't let them hurt your children
Won't you keep us safe and warm

Dear Mr. Jesus, they say that she may die
Oh I hope the doctors stop the pain
I know that you could save her and take her up to the sky
So she would never have to hurt again

Please don't let them hurt your children
We need love and shelter from the storm
Please don't let them hurt your children
Won't you keep us safe and warm

Dear Mr. Jesus, please tell me what to do
And please don't tell my daddy
But my mommy hits me, too.

Please don't let them hurt your children
We need love and shelter from the storm
Please don't let them hurt your children
Won't you keep us safe and warm

Please don't let them hurt your children
We need love and shelter from the storm
Please don't let them hurt your children
Won't you keep us safe and warm

Dear Mister Jesus - Shelter From The Storm Records and Tapes Produced by Richard Klender Gospel Workshop for children, Inc. Real Audio file created by Loupgarou Inc.Used with Permission.
 


 
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  (Joanie's Note: A number of years ago I heard a little girl about 6 years old singing a beautiful and heart wrenching song about a child dying from injuries she had suffered from child abuse. I happened upon the words and the song while doing a search for other sites dealing with Child Abuse.
Permission has since been received from Loupgarou Inc.  to distribute the song to anyone who wishes to use it on their site, along with the copyright information. If you wish to use "Dear Mr. Jesus," on your site, email DPatrol (don't forget to remove the capital letters in the email address before sending). And, once your information is verified, we will send you the song and the copyright information that must be displayed with it.)
 

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let her cry


  let her cry the little girl  that never got to cry out loud without
getting hit, without getting yelled at that had everything in the world to
cry, about because she was being abused she is maybe 5 maybe 10 maybe 4
but she is in pain she is the little girl that nobody ever found because
she has been hiding all these years inside this 41yr old lady who is just
now beginning to let her come out and get to know her and who is letting
her cry and cry and cry all those years of tears inside feeling as though
she was with no voice and looking up at the doctors and the people and she
cant speak to say it hurts it hurts because they took her voice they took
her spirit they took her soul they took her ...................and took
her till they had no more to take and left her defenseless and in so much
pain they kept hitting her and yelling at her and she could not speak she
could not stop them for she had no voice they made her afraid to speak to
defend herself

she was dead only she had to live anyway inside this grownup body with
no place to hide accept inside of this women that walked around and felt
nothing, loved no one, hated her life hated and hated and hated and never
knew why
 so the grownup drank and used drugs to protect the little girl from being
hurt any more .....but after 25 yrs it didn't work anymore now the little
girl is sober and exposed and triggered by everything that happens all
that pain is on the surface now and she cry's and she cry s because now
she can.......... now she is safe no one can beat her anymore no one can
stop her from being and growing into the lady she was supposed to be so
let her cry....................because now she is 41 and crying for the
first time  and the world is a trigger.........so let her cry and cry and
heal
 cry no more
Because now she is a survivor
instead of a victim

© Donna Christiansen
written by Donna Christiansen

( Joanie's Note: Donna is a Survivor that I have met via the Site Fights and I must say, she is a very strong Lady (though she is unaware of that fact!!) While talking to her for hours recently on the phone she read me "let her cry" that she had written the day before. I had a heck of a time not crying while she read it to me, as I could hear the pain and suffering in the words that were written. I asked her permission to post her poem here as I feel that the words and feelings are those that ALL SURVIVORS share.)
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Surviving the Words - http://domynoes.com/Domynoe/Dedications/BTW/
Domynoe's Domain(Surviving the Words....good reads in here)

Prevent Child Abuse America
Medline Plus: Child Abuse
(sort of like an abuse hotline...put on the web to help you!)

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